So you know the saying "truth hurts"? Well, I somewhat agree with it. I just have one addition to it. I think it should be "truth hurts sometimes". Just because something is true, doesn't mean it hurtful. If someone thinks your good looking, for instance, it's the truth for them and I don't find it very hurtful. I find it kinda pessimistic to think everything true is always negative.
And besides. I know the truth can be hurtful, but it's better than living in a lie and if people are honest with you, usually (at least for me) the things will turn out to be better than before. For instance I used to be a vocalist in a band, and I kinda sucked. Only thing about my role that I actually was good at was performing. Then, my band mates were honest about my skills and told me I suck, so now I'm a bassist in the same band and in my opinion we're a lot better than before. If people lie to make you feel better, you can't improve yourself. Or at least not as much. If people are honest, you know your limits, so you can a) work to get past them or b) try something else.
And while we're on the subject, I hate when people can't take a compliment. Like I said before, if someone thinks you're good looking, it's the truth for them, even if you disagree. When something is an opinion, it's always true. So if someone says they think you're good looking, good at something or otherwise compliments you, even if you disagree, just say thank you and be flattered. I think it's always flattering, if someone compliments me.
So yeah. This is what this blog is gonna be like. I'll just tell my opinions about subjects I've been thinking about. I'll write here, when I have something to write. I learned my lesson last time, when I tried to blog daily and all my updates were just me complaining about having nothing to write.
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